Love Lanyadoo Astrology 10.28-11.3.2015
March 21-April 19
You’re in charge of your own mind, Aries. What you think about and how you talk to yourself are all in your own control, even if it doesn’t always feel that way. This week you are being challenged to develop healthy boundaries for how you deal with yourself. No matter how anxious you are or how pressing your struggles feel, you won’t be helped by obsessing or indulging in destructive self-talk. Redirect your attention, preferably through exercise or playfulness, until you feel ready to see things in a fresh way.
April 20-May 20
Change is hard for everyone, but your sign is known throughout the land as the most resistant to it. It’s clear that shifts are happening, but it’s not certain if they’ll go exactly how you wish them to. Set up supportive conditions and people to help you tolerate the wonky feelings that are coming up around the good and not-so-bad stuff in your life! Don’t let your fears convince you that things are certainly awful; you’ve got this, Taurus.
May 21-June 2
You’re supposed to be taking your life by it’s ovaries and making it your own, Twin Star. Actively assert yourself, ask for what you want, and follow-through on your projects. The only thing you shouldn’t do this week is take on anything new – I’m talking anything. If it’s already connected to a project you’re doing then it’s OK, but right now you’d be wise to adjust to your new responsibilities and allow yourself to rise to the occasion before you add another thing to your plate.
June 22-July 22
You’re not supposed to have the answer, Moonchild. You have everything lined up, and you’ve done lots of work to get here – good on you! you’re far from done, though, and it’s giving you a solid case of nerves. Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, even if you have to fake it and even if only for this week. Promise yourself that if you don’t know the answer, you’ll allow yourself to hope for the best, and see if that helps things along. If it doesn’t, you can always go back to your worry-warting ways.
July 23-Aug. 22
Change is scary, but here’s a pro tip for you: stop trying to change your situation or other people. Just worry about yourself. If you shift what you’re willing to put up with and participate in, then there’s no way that the rest won’t change. Take full responsibility for what you consent to, lovely Leo. They say if you lay down with dogs, you get fleas; and they’re totally right. Stop blaming others for the stuff you’re playing along with this week.
Aug. 23-Sept. 22
You’ve got choices, Virgo. if you wanna be Meta about it, they’re between love and fear. If you wanna be more specific (LOLZ if a Virgo wants to be more specific!), you can make the most of your disappointments by learning from them, or you can get stuck lamenting them. The choice is yours, my friend. It’s not easy to find the growth opportunity when you’re hurt or scared, but that’s exactly what you’ve gotta do. Be a good friend to yourself this week.
Sept. 23-Oct. 22
You’re going through a huge period of emotional healing, and the worst part is having faith that you’ll be OK. Your survival mechanisms are being rewired as you challenge yourself to reach out for something more. You’ve created so many limitations and put up with so much bullshit based on what you think others want or what you believe you can get. No more, Libra. The Stars are here to help you, so don’t let the winding road of your learning curve derail you, my love.
Oct. 23-Nov. 21
Who do you love, Scorpio? Hopefully you’re on the list, but also some other lucky ducks too. Your life can be transformed by love, so take a moment to consider how you give it and where you get it. Kindness, love, and passion all have a healing force that can transform your life if you let them. Volunteer your time, write love letters, or just snuggle with the one(s) you love. Let your everything be helped by the power of intimacy.
Nov. 22-Dec. 21
When there are too many things happening at once that all feel important, it’s easy to hit a wall with them. Realign with your big picture plans, Sagittarius. You’re on the right path, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Don’t let your fears or all the details incite you to sabotage yourself this week. Pause and unwind a bit. When you stay fixated on your primary goals, you’re more effective and calmer too. Everyone wins! You’re never wasting your time when you’re getting your shit together, pal.
Dec. 22-Jan. 19
There’s no right or wrong, Cappy; there’s only what’s right/wrong for you. It’d be easy to get overwhelmed and kicked around by fate this week, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Be kind enough to yourself to identify your needs and limits, then badass enough to honor them. Don’t let situations or people knock you out of your center. Saying YES to yourself this week may require you to say NO to others; but if you do it with compassion, you’ll be doing your best.
Jan. 20-Feb. 18
Being free is a beautiful thing, but defensively pushing people away is not the same as taking space from them, pal. This week your relationships need your honesty and attention. How you wish to participate is on you, and how others react to that is all them. The problem is that you may not like the consequences of some of your choices this week. Act and speak slowly enough to channel empathy into your actions, Aquarius.
Feb. 19-March 20
If you can accept that the people that you love come equipped with their bullshit and limitations you’ll be much better off, Pisces. Other peoples’ shortcomings are not because of you, and you can’t and shouldn’t take them personally. Take responsibility for how you handle yourself around known stressors, my love. Protect yourself from the same old crap that seems to keep hurting your feels. Be as good a friend to yourself as you are for others this week.